Is inviting a third person into your bed the begining of the end of your relationship?
- Can 3 way sex ever work long term?
- Has it ended your relationship?
- Does your partner keep on suggesting you try it out?
Here are some reactions I have received & my thoughts to them
We have been married for over 5 years now. Recently my husband keeps suggesting we invite another man into our bed. Do you think he is Gay?
GT: OK a number of things come to mind here. 1. Are you both happy with your sex life that it needs someone else to spice it up? 2. You should only act out in life things you feel comfortable with & not to be forced into something. 3. It does not necessarily mean he is Gay but I think it’s defiantly something you need to bring up in conversation.
I have been dating a long term girlfriend now for a number of years. Our love making is good but she has suggested that we invite one of her friends in to our bed. Should I do it?
GT: There are many reasons why a couple want to try a threesome – But it needs to be talked over in depth with both sides agreeing to where the line is drawn. Plus I’d suggest that you don’t invite a mutual friend into your bed in case it all goes horribly wrong. I’d say only agree to it with a casual partner & practice safe sex & know the limits.
Graham – I agreed to a threesome with my man & he eventually went off with her fulltime. So no don’t do it.
GT: A perfect example of a threesome being an excuse to spice up a lack lustre love life & to discover what you really want.
So, In Summary…
Everyone has views on why a couple my want to have a threesome – For some morally it’s wrong & for others it can be a huge thrill in sex – I’d say before you agree to anything like this talk it over with your partner & discuss what you’re both of your intentions are with the idea. Never be forced in to something you don’t want to do.
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