Are they a gold digger?
- Your Dad’s new partner is only after his money?
- Your friend’s new admirer on has one thing on their mind?
- You are being judged wrongly?
Here are some reactions I have received & my thoughts to them
Graham, My dad & I lost my mum 2 years ago, it’s been a tough time for us all. I do worry though that a new woman in his life is only after his money.
GT: Ok I can hear the alarm bells ringing and it’s good to look out for your dad’s welfare – but is it misjudged? – Is this woman making your dad happy? Are you not being fair to this woman as you maybe see her trying to take your mums place? – All questions you need to be speaking openly to your dad about. Tell him how you feel and be open to his response.
Graham- My best mate has a new man in her life, I just don’t trust him. She is a beautiful woman with a great job and fantastic prospects; I don’t want her to through her life away on a down-and-out no hoper.
GT: So what does she have to say about your thoughts? Once again let your friend know you fear for the honesty of this guy – but let her tell you her side of the story. Reassure her you are & will be there for her if things don’t work out with him.
Graham – I am sick & tired of people getting in the way of my relationship with my man. I may come from a different back ground from him & yes he may have more money than me, but I love him for being him & not his wallet. I am NOT a gold digger.
GT: I guess his mates are only looking out for him – it’s up to you both to prove them wrong – This is something that you can do together.
So, In Summary…
The term “Gold Digger” often means there is jealousy somewhere involved. Yes, keep an eye out for your mates & family – But they need to live their own lives, making sure that you are always there for them.
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