Would you go out with a mate’s ex?
- Have you broken the golden rule?
- Has it caused a friendship breakdown?
- Are you all cool with it?
Here are some reactions I have received & my thoughts to them
Graham, I once slept with my best mate’s man behind her back. She to this day does not know but I’m still riddled with guilt.
GT: Well it depends the circumstances surrounding this – Was their relationship over? Why did you do it, just to prove you could? If they were still together then what you did was wrong. If they had split up & you’re both free agents then I can’t really see an issue. Guilt is a destructive emotion & it will eat away at you. Seems to me you have a choice either say nothing & live with your guilt or maybe ruin a friendship? Your choice.
Graham- My mate had sex with one of my ex boyfriends & they are now together. More fool her! She knew what he was like & one day he will do the dirty on her.
GT: You will no doubt feel the pain of this but you must let it go otherwise it will eat you up inside. As you say she knows what this guy is like so she should be going into this with her eyes open. Let’s hope you all manage to learn from this experience.
GT – My ex wife is now living with my cousin. He is welcome to her. We never talk any longer & it has ripped the family apart.
GT: We can’t help who we fall in love with & once someone becomes a free agent then it’s up to them who they choose to be with. But please think long & hard about the consequences of falling for someone who may be a bit too close for comfort for many reasons.
So, In Summary…
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