Would you take back a cheating partner?
- End the relationship there & then?
- Try to rebuild what has been torn apart?
- Try to understand why they had done what they had done?
Here are some reactions I have received & my thoughts to them
Graham, I caught out my wife sleeping with the man next door – I can never forgive her for what she did to me. I thought we had a solid relationship.
GT: Maybe that’s where it all went wrong – lack of communication – Partners need to be more open on their feelings & emotions towards each other. If only they talked more about things they feel about without each other then cheating on their partner would not happen so easily.
Graham- I found out from a friend of mine that my husband was having sex with a woman 10 years his junior. We talked it over & after a long time of rebuilding I do trust him again, but it took time.
GT: GT: Once again if only you’d had the communication earlier on then maybe just maybe he would not have strayed. It’s not easy to forgive in these circumstances, so good for you if you have been able to. What you can’t do now is bring up what happened every time you have a disagreement with your husband –if it’s forgive & forget then that’s what you need to do.
Graham – I would never take a cheating ex back – once a cheat always a cheat.
GT: I can see why you may say that – but you need to always understand why someone has cheated on you.
So, In Summary…
I want to make it clear that I do not condone a partner that cheats – but there will always be a reason why – normally it’s a lack of happiness within your own relationship. So as always open communication within your relationship is VERY important to make sure you’re both getting out of your relationship what you want.
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